13months and 2 days

how awkward. what do you tell people when they go "AM I INVITED??" and they arn't? i've been saying, "oh, i' don't have the guest list done yet. it's going to be a small wedding. ". and that will do fine for now...hopefully they will get the point. but when it's closer! my god, i don't want to be rude! but i guess if they are silly enough to ask...